My Response
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This was posted by Rhianna Nelson the creator of Faith Hope Love.
4/27/2010
Just Hit the Delete Button!
Where to start this post? I know I will probably get some hate mail or whatever for this, but its coming out and I cant stop it!I've come to realize that no matter what there is always that person or group of people that always know everything, and think they are better than the next person. I cant stand it that some people have a stick up their butt and think they are so much smarter, prettier, or more successful than others, yes this may be true since we are all different but they shouldn't make people feel bad or rub it in. I have also had enough of the crap that they call RUG. Its the same thing every week, the same topics come up and the same stupid drama each month. Its old and stupid. This is why I have removed myself of the crap! Then the good 'ol DREAM VS. FHL battle. Maybe its just me but this is really stupid! Why is it that "they" think that there group is so much different than ours? In reality it is quite the same, FHL has done a benefit sale for a child with a disease, we have done get together with food involved, we reach out to our community and host PLAYDATES! Oh wait that is the only thing that we do NOT have in common with DREAM, We host weekly playdates! Dream has done the Benefit sale, get together with food involved (They just call it a recipe swap) and what have they done for the community as a whole? Maybe I have missed this but helping 3 girls go to prom doesn't do crap for the community....it just heightens the High School experience. But there defense to this question is Well we plan to help Pregnant teens, or Adopt A grandparent.....what does this have to do for the community??? Absolutely nothing....its helps those 2 categories Pregnant Teens and Old People....its nice and I salute them for helping but maybe with the Teens they should advocate Abstinence or Education on Safe Sex??? How about offer free condoms, or other forms of birth control, offer advice and guidance to end the cycle of teen pregnancy? Junction City has the Highest Teen Pregnancy rate in KS, do something to offer teens other options then having sex, because if they know they can just get help from this one group then why not do it?They will also say that Dream is better or different because they want to become a NON Profit, and become National....sorry but when did recipe swaps become material for being a non profit? Guess what Ladies there is probably a group of FB doing the EXACT same thing you are in another Town...Guess what there are 13537873 groups on FACEBOOK and probably ran the same way as yours....Oh Wait that is FHL!Maybe I am bitter, or stressed...or could just care less cause you are not pulling the wool over my eyes...I give it 2 more months before they are worn out and dwindling down, because you cannot run a non profit with 2 people! Let alone a facebook group with 5 active members and 93 inactive ones....Make that 92 :)This plus the annoyance of FB status' of how immature "someone" is or "if you have something to say then say it" and the "OMG KISS MY ASS CAUSE I'M AMAZING" I have deleted a few more off the friends list....because you haven't added shit to my life so poof you are gone, just hit the delete button!I have come to realize who my friends are, and who just wants me to be a number on their group. I rather have 5 amazing close friends then 93 acquaintances that only want my friendship when its a convince to them.
Posted by The Crazy Nelson Household! at 9:33 AM 0 comments
Now let me fill you in on my take on this. I am the creator of ♥ D.R.E.A.M ♥ . I am not mad nor upset. Most of your probably think I should be but then again I am different. When I first read this I was confused. I never knew a problem existed. I created this group before hers was created, before "anna" was apart of RUG Girls, a group that did get togethers and Ladies night out. I quit the group because I wanted to make a change, so Kris and I created ♥ D.R.E.A.M ♥ We are a group that helps our community. Mind you We cannot save the world. We are NOT a Non for profit org that gets grants, so everything we do comes out of pocket, or is money we have raised. Yes I am proud of what we have achieved in such little time, and how much of an impact we have had on other lives. We have an ACTIVE count of 94 members who show their support, time and effort everyday. We don't expect people to make every event, we know they have lives and families they want to embrace. That's how we differ! We take what we can get but we will get the job done. We recognize that our Group is not the only group on FB, nor in this town. Also I believe it only takes one person to make a difference. So it doesn't matter what "anna" says about my group, the only reaction I will ever give her, is the right one. I don't dwell on DRAMA, and if you are in our group you know there are certain standards we have, and drama is not aloud! I take pride in everything I do, I don't think I am better then anyone else. I welcome new people into my life. I know that our group is full of people from different walks of life. I am proud of that. I am married to a wonderful man who is serving in Iraq, all the while holding down a job, taking care of 3 kids, 2 Great Danes, 75 fish, and my sister. Oh and we must not forget ♥ D.R.E.Am. ♥ . The only feeling I have is sorrow for "anna" . Maybe one day she will see exactly how shallow this blog was. I would never intentionally put someone down, especially with them having no clue there was an issue in the first place. If you were the adult you say you are, why would you blog about it, and not talk to me like and adult would have? I know you follow my blog, and are probably itching for a response. Well here you have it. I don't hate you, I am not upset with you, if anything I feel sorry for you.
4/27/2010
Just Hit the Delete Button!
Where to start this post? I know I will probably get some hate mail or whatever for this, but its coming out and I cant stop it!I've come to realize that no matter what there is always that person or group of people that always know everything, and think they are better than the next person. I cant stand it that some people have a stick up their butt and think they are so much smarter, prettier, or more successful than others, yes this may be true since we are all different but they shouldn't make people feel bad or rub it in. I have also had enough of the crap that they call RUG. Its the same thing every week, the same topics come up and the same stupid drama each month. Its old and stupid. This is why I have removed myself of the crap! Then the good 'ol DREAM VS. FHL battle. Maybe its just me but this is really stupid! Why is it that "they" think that there group is so much different than ours? In reality it is quite the same, FHL has done a benefit sale for a child with a disease, we have done get together with food involved, we reach out to our community and host PLAYDATES! Oh wait that is the only thing that we do NOT have in common with DREAM, We host weekly playdates! Dream has done the Benefit sale, get together with food involved (They just call it a recipe swap) and what have they done for the community as a whole? Maybe I have missed this but helping 3 girls go to prom doesn't do crap for the community....it just heightens the High School experience. But there defense to this question is Well we plan to help Pregnant teens, or Adopt A grandparent.....what does this have to do for the community??? Absolutely nothing....its helps those 2 categories Pregnant Teens and Old People....its nice and I salute them for helping but maybe with the Teens they should advocate Abstinence or Education on Safe Sex??? How about offer free condoms, or other forms of birth control, offer advice and guidance to end the cycle of teen pregnancy? Junction City has the Highest Teen Pregnancy rate in KS, do something to offer teens other options then having sex, because if they know they can just get help from this one group then why not do it?They will also say that Dream is better or different because they want to become a NON Profit, and become National....sorry but when did recipe swaps become material for being a non profit? Guess what Ladies there is probably a group of FB doing the EXACT same thing you are in another Town...Guess what there are 13537873 groups on FACEBOOK and probably ran the same way as yours....Oh Wait that is FHL!Maybe I am bitter, or stressed...or could just care less cause you are not pulling the wool over my eyes...I give it 2 more months before they are worn out and dwindling down, because you cannot run a non profit with 2 people! Let alone a facebook group with 5 active members and 93 inactive ones....Make that 92 :)This plus the annoyance of FB status' of how immature "someone" is or "if you have something to say then say it" and the "OMG KISS MY ASS CAUSE I'M AMAZING" I have deleted a few more off the friends list....because you haven't added shit to my life so poof you are gone, just hit the delete button!I have come to realize who my friends are, and who just wants me to be a number on their group. I rather have 5 amazing close friends then 93 acquaintances that only want my friendship when its a convince to them.
Posted by The Crazy Nelson Household! at 9:33 AM 0 comments
Now let me fill you in on my take on this. I am the creator of ♥ D.R.E.A.M ♥ . I am not mad nor upset. Most of your probably think I should be but then again I am different. When I first read this I was confused. I never knew a problem existed. I created this group before hers was created, before "anna" was apart of RUG Girls, a group that did get togethers and Ladies night out. I quit the group because I wanted to make a change, so Kris and I created ♥ D.R.E.A.M ♥ We are a group that helps our community. Mind you We cannot save the world. We are NOT a Non for profit org that gets grants, so everything we do comes out of pocket, or is money we have raised. Yes I am proud of what we have achieved in such little time, and how much of an impact we have had on other lives. We have an ACTIVE count of 94 members who show their support, time and effort everyday. We don't expect people to make every event, we know they have lives and families they want to embrace. That's how we differ! We take what we can get but we will get the job done. We recognize that our Group is not the only group on FB, nor in this town. Also I believe it only takes one person to make a difference. So it doesn't matter what "anna" says about my group, the only reaction I will ever give her, is the right one. I don't dwell on DRAMA, and if you are in our group you know there are certain standards we have, and drama is not aloud! I take pride in everything I do, I don't think I am better then anyone else. I welcome new people into my life. I know that our group is full of people from different walks of life. I am proud of that. I am married to a wonderful man who is serving in Iraq, all the while holding down a job, taking care of 3 kids, 2 Great Danes, 75 fish, and my sister. Oh and we must not forget ♥ D.R.E.Am. ♥ . The only feeling I have is sorrow for "anna" . Maybe one day she will see exactly how shallow this blog was. I would never intentionally put someone down, especially with them having no clue there was an issue in the first place. If you were the adult you say you are, why would you blog about it, and not talk to me like and adult would have? I know you follow my blog, and are probably itching for a response. Well here you have it. I don't hate you, I am not upset with you, if anything I feel sorry for you.
2 comments:
I honestly did Not post my blog for a response, my blog is my outlet, its where I can express my thoughts and feelings on anything that I want. I have no problem or issues with you Rachel. If I did have a personal issue with you I would have came to you. I left Dream because I felt that I was offering my time and assistance to you all and it was ignored. So I felt that I didnt belong there and should just pull out.
It was Kris that told me and a few others that you were trying to become a NON Profit and become National...I never said That you currently are.
I blogged about my thoughts on the current projects you are working on that I felt you would turn away just as with the other things I have tried to help with in Dream. It seems to me any time someone asks what Dream or FHL is you try to make it sound better or totally different when they really are not that much of a difference. Krislte and I fork out the money every single time we have an event, If the USO and Hy-vee didnt help with food for our deployment dinner we would have had to pay out of pocket and we were ok with that. We still had to buy some stuff but most of it was offered to us.
I am not the only one that feels the way I do and I am certainly not the only one that has said the exact same things I have...Im just more vocal and use my blog to express it. There are members in your group that have IM'ed me, PM'ed me and even personally asked me this and a few other questions, I told them I didnt know and that they should ask their leaders, but I guess they are just intimidated by you. You may have 94 members on your page, but how many of them really help out? Honestly? I know that ALL 94 do not help out there are probably a good 10 or so that have never once asked to help you with something.
Im glad you read my blog and found it amusing enough to take the time and write a response..Sorry it got to you so bad. Maybe I am shallow, but I know who my friends are and they love me, shallowness and all. People that know me know how great of a person and friend I am, what you say about me doesnt harm me or hurt me.
P.S I never mentioned your name once in my BLOG, so I never was talking about you personally.
I responded because 1) I didn't even know about your blog until one of my members pointed it out to me. 2) yes ALL of our memebr are active. 3) you did insult me as DREAM is my "baby" and my pride, so yes there was some sort of link to me. 4) ALL of my members have a right to know exactly how you feel about our group. 5) My response to you was to let you know out of respect how I feel. 6) I don't have any issue with you, nor hatred as I stated. 7) think what you want but until you are an ACTIVE member and actually know what dream is doing then you can't possible know what we do, how many people are active or whatever your other assumptions are. 8) I will stand and protect my group as I would any of my friends.
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