My Life

I am very open to all kinds of music, I see it as a way to express myself in soo many ways. I don't know many other people that view music the same way. I know people listen to the words, and the beat but the question is can they relate to what the singer/songwriter is talking about? I know a few people that view music the same way I do and its awesome that we can play songs and tell what each other is feeling just by listening to the song. Sorry it was on my mind and had to blog about it..lmao

Ok so My buddy Christina and I came up with this awesome plan to have a poker night. Just a few of our friends and buddies. Well its A character party..lol We are talking, poker table, costumes, drinks, cigars the whole 9! Well we are going to go to Salina on Friday to see about the costumes, and some part supplies, as well as a poker table. Then after we get back I have to take Kayden to get some shoes, and a watch...then its off to Watch the new freddie movie..I am sooo stoked! We will have about 10 people involved in this poker party but its going to be soo much fun! Then Saturday I am helping with getting the kids ready to go to prom. After that I am going to get ready to go bowl with the PBA pro's!!! I am excited about that. Well off my soap box back to reality.

Well I feel really good today. I went to manhattan and helped a student from the high school pick out her jewelry and makeup for prom. My group DREAM provided the fund for her to be able to go to prom. Doing this now with her, made me realize how expensive its going to be when my children go...but I am looking forward to it none the less.

I learned a lesson today. Where ever there is succsess, there will be haters. I am still in the works of learning on how to deal with it. I guess I never figured why people would dislike people that work hard to get what they want. Maybe because I don't dislike anyone for being good at what they do, instead I try and learn from it, to help myself out in the future. I envy people who have it made, some have it made from the start, and others work their ass off to get where they are. Granted I have more respect for the ones that work for it, but thats just me.

I am finding myself grow as a person more and more each year. I look at people my age and realize that I am more mature, not because I chose to be, but because the experiences I have had in life. I like it, I don't mind but it does make it hard to find someone my age to relate with. Most of my friends are 30+. Not that its a bad thing, I envy them for going through their life and sharing their experiences.

Well My husband is doing good overseas. As best as to be expected. I miss him more and more each day. You know most people complain about deployments, I guess I look at it as it makes your marriage stronger. I know, I know I don't like deployments but through it all you have to find the positive or you will never get through it.

I miss my mother as well, she is overseas too, as well as my uncle. Go figure they would send all my family to Iraq/ Afghanistan all at the same time. I am used to it though, the Army is my way of life, and I know it can be hard but there are alot of great things that come from it too. I just wish everyone else around me would see that. I always get "aww you poor thing", my response it "don't feel sorry for me, feel sorry for the families that don't have support".

Well I need to get off here, I have laundry and dinner to finish up.

Well most of you know that My husband deployed March 08, 2010. This is not our first deployment but it feels just the same. I understand he has a job to do and I respect him for doing it. I have been with my husband for 5 years. I am dedicated to my family. This is all just so stressful. Being without my rock, and having to take on all that I do. I must admit though, I keep busy and the time seems to fly faster then last deployment. I also decided to stay in Kansas for this deployment rather then moving somewhere I am more familiar with. No more running, time to settle in and claim this as our home for the remainder of our time here. The kids and I are well rooted here. They are doing well in school, and I have my job and My Group. Its funny how much my perspective has changed on life in general these past few years. I have had a hard life, but it all seems so easy now. My children are beautiful, my husband and I are doing better then ever, and for once in my life I can say I am not worried about anything. Sure there are the small thing like, what am I going to have for dinner...lol but those things are tiny compared to what I am used to. I like this state of life, a girl can get used to this. The only thing I worry about is my husbands saftey. I know he is a smart, strong man, and I just want him home with me :)

This was posted by Rhianna Nelson the creator of Faith Hope Love.

4/27/2010

Just Hit the Delete Button!
Where to start this post? I know I will probably get some hate mail or whatever for this, but its coming out and I cant stop it!I've come to realize that no matter what there is always that person or group of people that always know everything, and think they are better than the next person. I cant stand it that some people have a stick up their butt and think they are so much smarter, prettier, or more successful than others, yes this may be true since we are all different but they shouldn't make people feel bad or rub it in. I have also had enough of the crap that they call RUG. Its the same thing every week, the same topics come up and the same stupid drama each month. Its old and stupid. This is why I have removed myself of the crap! Then the good 'ol DREAM VS. FHL battle. Maybe its just me but this is really stupid! Why is it that "they" think that there group is so much different than ours? In reality it is quite the same, FHL has done a benefit sale for a child with a disease, we have done get together with food involved, we reach out to our community and host PLAYDATES! Oh wait that is the only thing that we do NOT have in common with DREAM, We host weekly playdates! Dream has done the Benefit sale, get together with food involved (They just call it a recipe swap) and what have they done for the community as a whole? Maybe I have missed this but helping 3 girls go to prom doesn't do crap for the community....it just heightens the High School experience. But there defense to this question is Well we plan to help Pregnant teens, or Adopt A grandparent.....what does this have to do for the community??? Absolutely nothing....its helps those 2 categories Pregnant Teens and Old People....its nice and I salute them for helping but maybe with the Teens they should advocate Abstinence or Education on Safe Sex??? How about offer free condoms, or other forms of birth control, offer advice and guidance to end the cycle of teen pregnancy? Junction City has the Highest Teen Pregnancy rate in KS, do something to offer teens other options then having sex, because if they know they can just get help from this one group then why not do it?They will also say that Dream is better or different because they want to become a NON Profit, and become National....sorry but when did recipe swaps become material for being a non profit? Guess what Ladies there is probably a group of FB doing the EXACT same thing you are in another Town...Guess what there are 13537873 groups on FACEBOOK and probably ran the same way as yours....Oh Wait that is FHL!Maybe I am bitter, or stressed...or could just care less cause you are not pulling the wool over my eyes...I give it 2 more months before they are worn out and dwindling down, because you cannot run a non profit with 2 people! Let alone a facebook group with 5 active members and 93 inactive ones....Make that 92 :)This plus the annoyance of FB status' of how immature "someone" is or "if you have something to say then say it" and the "OMG KISS MY ASS CAUSE I'M AMAZING" I have deleted a few more off the friends list....because you haven't added shit to my life so poof you are gone, just hit the delete button!I have come to realize who my friends are, and who just wants me to be a number on their group. I rather have 5 amazing close friends then 93 acquaintances that only want my friendship when its a convince to them.
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Now let me fill you in on my take on this. I am the creator of ♥ D.R.E.A.M ♥ . I am not mad nor upset. Most of your probably think I should be but then again I am different. When I first read this I was confused. I never knew a problem existed. I created this group before hers was created, before "anna" was apart of RUG Girls, a group that did get togethers and Ladies night out. I quit the group because I wanted to make a change, so Kris and I created ♥ D.R.E.A.M ♥ We are a group that helps our community. Mind you We cannot save the world. We are NOT a Non for profit org that gets grants, so everything we do comes out of pocket, or is money we have raised. Yes I am proud of what we have achieved in such little time, and how much of an impact we have had on other lives. We have an ACTIVE count of 94 members who show their support, time and effort everyday. We don't expect people to make every event, we know they have lives and families they want to embrace. That's how we differ! We take what we can get but we will get the job done. We recognize that our Group is not the only group on FB, nor in this town. Also I believe it only takes one person to make a difference. So it doesn't matter what "anna" says about my group, the only reaction I will ever give her, is the right one. I don't dwell on DRAMA, and if you are in our group you know there are certain standards we have, and drama is not aloud! I take pride in everything I do, I don't think I am better then anyone else. I welcome new people into my life. I know that our group is full of people from different walks of life. I am proud of that. I am married to a wonderful man who is serving in Iraq, all the while holding down a job, taking care of 3 kids, 2 Great Danes, 75 fish, and my sister. Oh and we must not forget ♥ D.R.E.Am. ♥ . The only feeling I have is sorrow for "anna" . Maybe one day she will see exactly how shallow this blog was. I would never intentionally put someone down, especially with them having no clue there was an issue in the first place. If you were the adult you say you are, why would you blog about it, and not talk to me like and adult would have? I know you follow my blog, and are probably itching for a response. Well here you have it. I don't hate you, I am not upset with you, if anything I feel sorry for you.